Relationship

There are many types of human relationship in various settings --in a family, at school, at work, and in society. Some are close and last long; others, superficial and transient. Some remain smooth, steady and stable like a huge rock, or a stagnant pool; others, tumultuous and unpredictable like stormy weather. It all depends on the parties involved in the relationship, and, to some extent, on the environment or the situations in which the relationship exists and evolves.

I think only two human relationships worth discussing: mother love, and the first love between a man and a woman.

Mother love is usually unconditioned and one way. The mother never expects much from her child's love for her. She just loves the child, and wants to care for him/her. It usually happens that the child scarcely appreciates the mother's love, even when the child has become a grown-up, and has his/her own children. Taking care of old parents is sometimes considered a burden to the son or the daughter.

The first love between a man and a woman is the first blueprint in one's heart and mind. It is not easy to fade away with time. It is often genuine in the sense that it is not based on any calculations or any other kind of economic, social, or political interference. It is pure and innocent, like a piece of white paper without any traces of pen or pencil on it.

Other remaining types of relationships are often temporary or transient, and subject to environmental changes. Hence, they are vicarious, and usually do not have lasting values.

Of course, there are always exceptions. Some mothers treat their children badly, and some first loves have turned into nightmares for both lovers! You should not be surprised, for humans are diverse and their emotions, whimsical and erratic.